Verbes pronominaux (Reflexive verbs)

They 'reflect' the action back onto the sibject. they are always accompained by a reflexive pronoun

I looked at myself in the mirror myself is a reflexive pronoun

-je lave la voiture(I am wasi=hing the car)         je me lave(I am washing myself)
-j'ai couché le bébé(I put the baby to bed)         je me suis couché(i went to bed/I put myself to bed)

Reflexive pronouns

PersonSingularPlural
1stme(m')(myself)nous(ourselves)
2ndte(t')(yourself)vous(yourself/selves)
3rdse(s')(himself, herself, itself, oneself)se(s')(themselves)

Note

  1. m', t' and s' are used instead of me, te and se in front of a vowel or a silent h

    -tu t'amuses?- non, je m'ennuie(are you you enjoying yourself? - no, I am bored)
    -il s'habille â la salle se bain(he gets dressed in the bathroom)
    
  2. Reflexive pronouns are often not translated in English

    -je me demande si(I wonder if...)
    -ils se moquent de moi(they're making fun of me)
    
  3. Plural reflexive pronouns can also be used to express reciprocal actions; in this case they are translated by 'each other' or 'one another'

    -nous nous détestons(we hate one another)
    -ils ne se parlent pas(they are not talking to each other)
    
  4. se can mean 'ourselves' or 'each other' when it is used with the ppronoun on meaning 'we'

    -on s'est perdu(we got lost)
    -on se connaît(we know each other)
    

Position of reflexive pronouns

They are placed immediately before the verb, except in positive commands, where they follow the verb and are linked to it by a hyphen

-tu te dépêches?(will you hurry up?)
-dépêchons-nous!(let's hurry)
-ne t'inquiète pas(don not worry)
-ne vous fiez pas à lui(don't trust him)
-elle doit se reposer(she needsto rest)
-repose-toi(have a rest)

Conjuagation of reflexive verbs

  • Simple tense These are formed in the same way as for the non-reflexive verbs, except that a reflexive pronoun is used
  • Compound tense These are formed with auxiliary verb être followed by the past participle of the verb

Agreement of the pst participle

  • In most cases, the reflexive pronoun is a direct object and the past participle of the verb agrees in number and in gender with the reflexive pronoun

    -il s'est trompé(he made a mistake)
    -elle s'est endormie(ahe fell asleep)
    -ils se sont excusés(they apologized)
    -elle se sont assises(they sat down)
    
  • When the reflexive pronoun is used as an indirect object, the past participle does not change

    -nous nous sommes écrit(we wrote to each other)
    -elle se l'est acheté(she bought it for herself)
    
  • When the reflexive verb has a direct object, the reflexive pronoun is the indirect object of the reflexive verb and the past participle does not agree with it

    -Caroline s'est tordu la cheville(Caroline sprained her ankle)
    -vous vous êtes lavè les mains, les filles?(did you washed your hands, girls?)
    

Common reflexive verbs

VerbMeaning
s'en allerto go away
s'éloigner(de)to move away(from)
se moquer deto laugh at
s'amuserto have fun
s'endormirto fall asleep
s'occuper deto take care of
s'appelerto be called
s'ennuyerto be bored
se passerto happen
s'approcher(de)to come near
s'étonner(de)to be suprised (at)
se passer deto do without
s'arrêterto stop
s'excuser(de)to apologize (for)
se promenerto go for a walk
s'asseoirto sit down
se fâcherto get angry/ fall out
se rappelerto remember
s'attendre àto expect
s'écrierto cry out/exclaim
se raserto shave
se baignerto have a bath
s'habillerto get dressed
se renseignerto make enquiries
se battreto fight
se hâterto hurry
se ressemblerto look alike
se blesserto hurt oneself
s'inquiéterto worry
se retournerto turn round
se coucherto go to bed
s'installerto settle down
se réveillerto wake up
se débarrasser deto get rid of
se laverto wash
se souvenir (de)to remember
se dépecherto hurry
se mêler deto meddle with
se taireto be/keep quiet
se déshabillerto undress
se mettre àto start
se tromperto be mistaken
se diriger versto move towards
se mettre en routeto set off
se trouverto be (situated)